Speech therapy, the psychological comfort of the elderly
People say that the old couple of Li Aunt are very blessed and their children are very filial.
This is not the case, the big crab is listed, the son drove to Yangcheng Lake to buy for the mother to eat; the weather is not too cold, the daughter bought a cashmere sweater for his father.
Despite this, Aunt Li still has opinions on them.
She said: “In fact, we are not lacking in material matters, and there is no one to talk to us.
“Mr. Li’s words are correct.
Nowadays, many elderly people, who eat and wear, feel that their days are lonely. There are no words to talk about when the old couple are together all day long; if one of them is dead.
Then, living will become more lonely, and some will suffer from depression or Alzheimer’s disease.
Therefore, the author hopes that the children will take the time to chat with their parents, that is, “therapy.”
”Men treatment” is to chat with people.
It is one of the ways to treat mental illness: for the elderly, especially for the “empty nest elderly”, it is a “mental supplement” that is conducive to their physical health.
For children, “sports therapy” is a gift of cocoa filial piety without spending money.
Some children do not understand the psychological needs of their parents. They think that they have a “generation gap” with their parents, lack a common language, and even feel that the elderly are unwilling to accompany them.
These ideas and practices are for the elderly themselves.
Undoubtedly a mental injury.
In the psychological clinic, an old man said to the author: “I am lonely because of loneliness, no one talks to me, and no one listens to me, so I hang your number and pour out my inner pain.
Otherwise, I can only watch TV every day.
The content of the TV program is good, but I can’t talk to the TV set?
“It can be seen that the elderly need “therapy”!
From the perspective of mental health, if a person lives in a lonely environment for a long time, psychosomatic diseases and personality changes may occur.
If the younger generation can often chat with the elderly, the old man will be happy, comfortable, and even sick, and will “alleviate the three points” in “therapy.”
The author wrote this article, which is to remind the juniors to chat with their elderly parents while caring about their parents’ material life.
Even if you don’t have time, you can always use the “therapy” effect.